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Camilla Dietrich's avatar

Such an interesting post. I totally agree that dealing with challenges will make your kids stronger, but perhaps the biggest influence is watching their parents (and others) deal calmly, creatively and with forethought to any new difficulties. They certainly won't be sweating the small stuff later in life!

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Kit's avatar

It is interesting to contrast how you and your family cope with real problems with how some many in the West fail to cope with pseudo problems and develop medically diagnosed 'anxiety'. Teenagers I teach are genuinely afraid of going out in crowded places after so long in 'lockdown' and they are too scared to go anywhere at all without their mobile phones. They will refuse to go out if their phone is not working because they are actually afraid of being outside without one. I am becoming genuinely concerned about how we are raising this generation and how they will cope with any real hardship, especially as I fear that hard times are coming. I think that you are giving your children very real advantages in mental and physical resilience. What used to be called character and moral fibre.

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